Sunday, August 17, 2008

How Do You Relax?


Count to ten slowly while slowly breathing air in (mouth closed, chest raising with air inhaled). Hold for a second or two and slowly breathe out to the count of ten at the same rate (mouth open, chest falling). It is helpful to do this while your eyes are closed and to imagine a safe place, a relaxing place. Imagine you are there. Feel how wonderful you feel. Feel the air, the sun on your back...This is called visualization and it can be very relaxing.

Learn to pamper yourself. Treat yourself as you would treat your best friend. Take a hot bath with the lights off, candles lit and soft music playing. Order dinner and have it delivered and serve it on beautiful china. Set a place for yourself at the table. I want to order chinese food and eat it in bed like they do in the movies. This is on my mental list of things to do this summer. Go clothes shopping if you are feeling good about your body or shop for something that would entertain you. Rent a movie, stress-free one that is. Call your best friend and talk about other things in life besides your illness(if you have one). If you don't have an illness I would say stay away from talking about how stressful your life is. Discuss cooking, gardening, etc. Listen, really listen to the other person. This will help you "stay outside of yourself." Make these kinds of things a habit and do them as often as you can.

What do you do that you find really relaxing? I personally love a massage but that can get expensive after a bit...but oh, so worth it. If you have never had one, I would highly recommend it. I will sometimes get a massage and then get a steam shower afterwards. These are really nice and you can get whatever scent you want put in the steamer....wonderful.You can also just go for the steam shower without the massage. I find reading to be relaxing and I just realized that I have not read a book on the beach yet this summer. I had planned to but it has been raining every day now for three weeks. I think the next hot day I will head out for the ocean with a good book in hand. I do a lot of walking with my husband and that is very relaxing and gives us a chance to catch up on how each others day went. How do you relax or what would you recommend? I would love to know. You can leave a message here on the blog or email me. That would be great.

I found this little saying online and I thought I would post it because it is a good way to look at life, in my opinion:

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

- Unknown
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Anonymous said...

Mom, I love the "blurb" at the end of your post - very true and it really makes you think. I wanted to add to your ideas on how to relax. I don't do it often enough, but once and a while I go through my cupboard of products and try something new....a new, great smelling lotion, a new face mask, new make up or a fun hair idea. I feel like I am pampering myself and it's fun to try something new. And I definitely agree with you about reading a good book....I have read a few great ones this summer! Cuddling with my husband is a good relaxation technique too! :)

August 20, 2008 at 4:21 PM

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Healthy Eating

Healthy Eating

How it all began

When I was a child my grandfather always had the most amazing garden. His whole back yard was the garden and it was wonderful. I loved every vegetable that he grew - he even grew his own summer savory which apparently isn't that easy to do. Anyway, Grampy helped me put in my first garden and gave me all the tips. I couldn't believe how much work it was. It takes a lot of dedication and love. Sadly, he is gone now but I remember all the love that went into the garden and how even when I was a bit older and I would visit, he would fill the trunk of my car with veggies and I would have to go around my apartment building and share with others as there was no way I could eat all of it before it went bad.

I think my interest in health was part Grampy and part my father. My dad was a health nut when no one else was (that I knew of anyway) I am talking back in the 1970's. I don't think a lot of people knew about some of the stuff that my dad would talk about. He referred to white sugar as "poison"..ok, a little extreme but you get the point. Dad would eat a teaspoon of honey and a teaspoon of bran every day. I think this is important because my father was given six months to live when he was 19 years old and he managed to live until he was 44 with many health complications. I cannot say for sure but paying attention to what he put into his body as far as his food went, may have bought him some very valuable time.

Then comes my mom who was so devoted to my father and continues to be even though he passed away in 1981. I witnessed her nurse him back to health many times and she was the rock that held everything together. She is an amazing woman and I know he would be very proud of her for how she handled everything when he had to leave. My mom had to experiment with recipes to make them adaptable for dad's diet. He was on dialysis and could not consume any salt. If you have never had regular food without any salt - take it from me, it can be pretty bland. She was very creative and she did it with lots of love....

So for Grampy, Dad and for my mom who helped create that passion in me.............

Me with my mom in the garden 40+ years ago

Getting Started


This blogspot is titled "Fiber Fanatic" because after a lot of reading and research (there is so much out there) I think our lifestyles need to focus more on our fiber intake. Eating foods that are high in fiber are the ones that are better for you anyway. Also, you need to keep in mind that 1 gram of carbohydrates = 4 calories, 1 gram of protein= 4 calories, 1 gram of fat = 9 calories, 1 gram of alcohol = 7 calories and 1 gram of fiber = 0 calories. We don't often hear this...seems like everyone is counting calories and fat grams. Don't get me wrong, you still need to have a reasonable intake of calories divided into carbs, proteins, fat, etc but you can be full for much longer if you eat fiber rich foods. Fiber is the part of food that cannot be digested...that is why it has no calories. It is a type of complex carbohydrate. Fiber can be found in vegetables, fruits, seeds, nuts, legumes and grains.It is well known that Canadians eat too little fiber (on average 12 grams per day) and we should be eating 35 grams a day. It is possible to go as high as 60 but I don't ever get close to that...35 is fine but shoot for 35 each and every day. To begin...increase a bit each day and drink lots of water and if you like, herbal teas. If you increase too quickly, you may experience gas and bloating. I would suggest switching from white pasta to whole wheat pasta, white bread to 100% whole grain or 100% whole wheat bread and switch from white rice to brown. Making small changes will make a big difference and it may be easier to change gradually instead of all at once.